Social Media Ban for Under 16s: What It Means for Family Law Disputes
The UK government’s proposed ban on social media use for children under 16 is set to come into force in 2027, and could fundamentally change how young people access platforms such as TikTok, Instagram and Snapchat.
Whilst the focus of the policy is on protecting children’s safety and wellbeing, it is also likely to have significant implications for family law; particularly for separated parents navigating children’s upbringing.
In this blog, we explore how the proposed ban could affect family court proceedings and what parents should be considering now.
A New Source of Conflict for Separated Parents
Disagreements about children’s use of technology are already common. Parents often clash over screen time, smartphone ownership, and access to online content. However, the introduction of a legal framework restricting social media use marks a shift in how these disputes may be treated.
Rather than being seen as minor differences in parenting style, decisions about social media access could increasingly be viewed through the lens of child welfare; the key principle guiding all decisions in the family courts.
For separated parents, this means disputes about apps, accounts and online activity may carry greater legal weight than ever before.
How Family Courts May Approach Social Media Disputes
Family courts in England and Wales are guided by the principle that a child’s welfare is paramount. Within that context, judges may begin to scrutinise how each parent manages a child’s digital life.
As highlighted in the Law Gazette, concerns about online safety are likely to influence how courts assess parenting decisions. This could include:-
- Whether a parent allows access to age‑restricted platforms
- How each parent monitors and supervises online activity
- Exposure to inappropriate or harmful content
- The consistency of rules across both households
Importantly, social media use alone is unlikely to determine where a child lives or how much time they spend with each parent. However, it may form part of a broader picture when assessing a parent’s ability to safeguard and promote a child’s wellbeing.
Our thoughts on the proposed changes
Stacey Higgs, Paralegal in the Family Law Team at Thornton Jones says: “While the introduction of measures which are designed to protect children when online may be welcomed by many families, separated parents could face new challenges where personal views differ on social media use. Disagreements over access, communication and digital independence may create further areas of conflict, requiring careful and child-focused co-parenting discussions.”
Increased Pressure for Consistency Between Households
One of the key challenges for separated families is maintaining consistency in parenting approaches. With the introduction of a social media ban, there may be greater expectation that parents:-
- Agree clear and consistent rules about online access
- Communicate effectively about digital boundaries
- Avoid exposing children to conflicting standards between homes
Practical Challenges and Enforcement Issues
Whilst the proposed ban is well‑intentioned, questions remain about how it will be enforced in practice. Technology experts have already highlighted concerns that restrictions may be difficult to police effectively. For family courts, this creates a complex situation:-
- Compliance may be difficult to monitor
- Children may access platforms through alternative means
- Disputes may arise even where breaches are unintentional
As a result, courts are unlikely to adopt a rigid or punitive approach. Instead, the focus will remain on whether each parent is acting reasonably and in the child’s best interests.
What Should Parents Do Now?
Although the ban is not due to take effect until 2027, separated parents can take proactive steps to minimise future conflict:-
- Start the conversation early – discuss social media use and expectations before it becomes a point of disagreement.
- Agree clear boundaries – set out age‑appropriate rules about devices, apps and online behaviour.
- Prioritise consistency – where possible, ensure similar rules apply in both households.
- Focus on the child’s wellbeing – avoid turning disagreements into wider disputes, the child’s best interests should always come first.
- Seek legal advice if needed – if disagreements escalate, early legal guidance can help resolve issues before court proceedings become necessary.
Collaborative Family Law
Many people worry that getting divorced or separating will inevitably be long, expensive and full of conflict. However, with the right approach and expert legal guidance, it is often possible to keep the process amicable, as well as making it faster and less expensive – this is exactly what collaborative law is all about.
Looking Ahead: The Growing Role of Digital Parenting in Family Law
The proposed social media ban reflects a broader shift: parenting is increasingly taking place in a digital world, and the law is evolving alongside it.
For family lawyers, this represents a new and developing area of advice. For parents, it highlights the importance of cooperation, communication and forward planning.
As these changes take effect, one thing remains clear: the family courts will continue to prioritise the welfare of the child above all else, whether the issue is where they live, how often they see each parent, or how they engage with the online world.
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Need Advice on a Child Arrangements or a Parenting Dispute?
If you are experiencing difficulties reaching agreement with a former partner about your child’s upbringing, including issues relating to technology and social media, our family law team is here to help.
At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our experienced family law team can guide you through the range of Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) options available, helping you find the most appropriate approach for your circumstances. We can assist by:
- Explaining the different NCDR options available, including mediation, solicitor-led negotiation, collaborative law, arbitration, and private dispute resolution processes
- Helping you identify the most suitable method for resolving disputes relating to children, finances, property, and future arrangements
- Providing clear legal advice and practical guidance throughout the process
- Supporting constructive discussions aimed at reaching agreements without the need for court proceedings
- Preparing and reviewing documentation where agreements have been reached
- Assisting with arrangements, including parenting plans and financial settlements
- Helping you understand the benefits, limitations, and likely outcomes of each NCDR option
- Offering a calm, supportive, and solution-focused approach to help reduce conflict and encourage effective communication
Non-Court Dispute Resolution can provide a more flexible, cost-effective, and less stressful alternative to court proceedings, enabling families to resolve issues in a constructive and collaborative way. Obtaining the right legal support can help protect your interests, promote positive outcomes for your family, and ensure that any agreements reached are fair, practical, and workable for the future.
Get in touch with our friendly and knowledgeable team today to discuss your options. You can call us on 01924 290 029 or contact us using our online enquiry form.
Non-Court Dispute Resolution FAQs
Court is not your only option when disagreements arise. NCDR (Non-Court Dispute Resolution) offers practical and constructive ways to resolve disputes without the stress, delay and cost of litigation and court proceedings.
My Suggestion: Court is not your only option when disagreements arise. NCDR (Non-Court Dispute Resolution) offers practical and constructive ways to resolve disputes without the stress, delay and cost of litigation and court proceedings. NCDR (Non-Court Dispute Resolution) refers to ways of resolving family disputes without court proceedings, such as mediation, arbitration, collaborative law, and solicitor negotiations. Courts encourage parties to consider NCDR before issuing applications, as it can be quicker, less costly, and less confrontational than litigation.
In many family cases, the court expects people to consider NCDR before applying to court. The court can ask what steps have been taken to resolve matters without litigation.
Mediation – an impartial mediator helps you discuss issues and work towards a practical agreement.
Collaborative Law – each person has a trained solicitor, and everyone commits to resolving matters without going to court.
One Lawyer – both parties jointly instruct one neutral solicitor to help them reach a fair agreement.
Arbitration – an independent arbitrator makes a private, binding decision.
Early Neutral Evaluation – a neutral expert gives an early view on the strengths and weaknesses of each case.
The content of this blog post is for information only and does not constitute formal legal advice and should not be relied upon as advice. Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no liability for any such reliance upon this content. Where the post includes links to external websites, Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no responsibility for the content of such sites. Any link to a third-party website should not be construed as endorsement by Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited of any content, products or services which are outside our direct control.
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Searches, Surveys and Mortgage Valuations: What’s the Difference?
When purchasing a property, you may hear several similar sounding terms used throughout the process – conveyancing searches, property surveys, and your mortgage lender’s valuation. While they may sound similar, each plays a separate and important role in the buying process.
Understanding the difference between these terms can help you make informed decisions, protect your purchase, and avoid unexpected legal issues after completion.
Conveyancing Searches: Legal Checks on the Property
Conveyancing searches are carried out by your solicitor as part of the legal process. Their purpose is to uncover legal, planning or environmental matters that could affect the property or the land that the property stands on. Importantly, searches do not assess the physical condition of the building. Common types of conveyancing searches include:
Local Authority Search
This search provides information about:
- Planning permissions and building regulation approvals
- Conservation area status and listed building restrictions
- Tree preservation orders
- Road adoption and nearby road schemes
- Any enforcement notices or breaches affecting the property
Environmental Search
This highlights potential environmental risks, such as:
- Flood risk
- Land contamination
- Ground stability and subsidence issues
- Historical land use that could pose future concerns
Water and Drainage Search
This confirms:
- Whether the property is connected to mains water and drainage
- The location of public sewers and water mains
- Whether any sewers run within the property boundaries
Mining Search
In certain areas, a mining search is essential. It checks whether the property is affected by past, present or proposed mining activity, such as coal mining. These searches can reveal potential risks including ground instability, subsidence or future mining works that could impact the Property.
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Property Surveys: Checking the Condition of the Property
A property survey is arranged by the buyer and focuses on the physical condition of the building. Unlike a valuation or searches, a survey can identify defects, repairs and maintenance issues that may not be visible during a viewing.
Common types of surveys include:
Level 1 (Condition Report)
This is the most basic survey and is designed to complement the mortgage valuation. It does not include any advice, just highlights major visible issues.
Level 2 (HomeBuyer Report)
This is one of the most common surveys. It is particularly suitable for conventional properties in reasonable condition and it aims to give you a better understanding of any issues that could affect your decision to buy your new home and, at what price. It may identify problems such as damp, structural movement or roof issues.
Level 3 (Building and Full Structural Survey)
This is the most comprehensive of all the surveys. It is most appropriate for older or unusual properties, or ones that have either been significantly modified in the past, or that you intend to modify. It is often tailored to suit the specifics of the property and the local building conditions and materials.
A survey can also give you leverage to renegotiate the purchase price if significant issues are discovered.
The 10 Most Asked Questions in a Conveyancing Transaction Answered
At Thornton Jones Solicitors, we understand that buying or selling a property is often one of the largest financial decisions you will ever make. Whether you are moving home, purchasing your first property, or selling as part of a wider investment plan, the process can raise a lot of questions, and sometimes, a lot of worries.
Mortgage Lender Valuation: Protecting the Lender
A mortgage valuation is carried out on behalf of your lender – not for you as the buyer. Its sole purpose is to confirm that the property is worth at least the amount being loaned.
The valuation is usually brief and does not involve an in-depth inspection of the property’s condition. It will not identify defects, repairs or structural problems. Even though you typically pay for it, the valuation protects the lender’s interests, not yours.
This is why many buyers choose to obtain an independent survey in addition to the lender’s valuation.
Why you may need all three
Although there may appear to be some overlap, searches, surveys and valuations each serve a distinct and essential function by addressing different categories of risk:
- Searches identify legal, planning and environmental issues
- Surveys highlight potential repair and maintenance concerns
- Valuations confirm the property’s value for the mortgage lender
The absence of any of these checks may expose you to legal, financial or practical issues that only become apparent after completion, at which point remedies may be limited or costly to resolve.
About the Author
Olivia first completed work experience at Thornton Jones after developing an interest in pursuing a legal career while studying Law at A Level. Having enjoyed her time with the firm, she returned in August 2024 as a Junior Legal Assistant, gaining valuable experience within the Residential Conveyancing team and supporting clients throughout various stages of the conveyancing process. Since then, Olivia has continued to develop her legal knowledge and practical skills, progressing within the firm and now undertaking her training as an Apprentice Solicitor.
How Thornton Jones Solicitors Can Support You
At Thornton Jones Solicitor, we guide you through every stage of the conveyancing process, ensuring all necessary searches are carried out promptly and explained clearly.
We work closely with you and other professionals involved in your transaction to help you purchase progress smoothly, while ensuring that you are fully informed before you commit to completion.
We can also recommend other professionals to assist you in the process, such as surveyors.
If you have any questions about conveyancing searches, property surveys or valuations, our friendly and experienced team is here to help. Contact our team today on 01924 290 029 or contact us using our online enquiry form.
A Local Authority Search is a key part of the conveyancing process that reveals information held by the local council about a property. It helps identify issues that could affect the property’s value, use, or future sale. The search may disclose planning permissions, building regulation approvals, conservation area restrictions, proposed road schemes, and enforcement notices. Mortgage lenders often expect these searches to be carried out before completion. A Local Authority Search helps buyers make informed decisions and avoid unexpected legal or practical issues after purchasing a property.
For further advice, contact the specialist Residential Conveyancing Solicitors at Thornton Jones Solicitors.
An Environmental Search assesses potential environmental risks that could affect a property. During the conveyancing process, it provides information about matters such as flood risk, contaminated land, ground stability, landfill sites, and radon gas exposure. The search helps buyers understand whether there are environmental concerns that could impact the property’s value, safety, or mortgageability. If a risk is identified, further investigations may be recommended.
To learn more about environmental searches and the conveyancing process, speak to the experienced Residential Conveyancing Solicitors at Thornton Jones Solicitors.
The main difference between a Level 1, Level 2, and Level 3 Property Survey is the level of detail provided. A Level 1 Survey offers a basic overview of a property’s condition and is generally suitable for newer homes. A Level 2 Survey provides a more detailed assessment of visible defects and maintenance issues, while a Level 3 Survey delivers a comprehensive analysis of the property’s structure and condition. Choosing the right survey can help identify potential issues before you commit to a purchase.
For tailored guidance, contact the specialist Residential Conveyancing Solicitors at Thornton Jones Solicitors.
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BREAKING NEWS: Government Moves to Strengthen Rights for Unmarried Couples
The Government has launched a long-awaited consultation on cohabitation rights which is an important step towards better protection for unmarried couples. For family lawyers, this reform is overdue.
The “Common Law Marriage” Myth
Many still believe in the idea of a “common law marriage”, but in reality, cohabiting couples currently have far fewer rights than married couples or civil partners. This can leave financially vulnerable partners, and children, at risk when relationships end or a partner dies.
The proposals aim to address this gap by introducing stronger financial protections on separation, potential inheritance rights where a partner dies without a will, and improved safeguards for domestic abuse survivors. The consultation also considers whether prenuptial agreements and postnuptial agreements should become legally binding.
As cohabiting couples are now the fastest-growing family type in the UK, the law has struggled to keep pace with modern relationships. Clearer rules could bring much-needed certainty, reduce disputes, and ease pressure on the Family Court.
Cohabiting couples are now the fastest-growing family type in the UK
Cohabitation has become increasingly common across the UK, making cohabiting couples one of the fastest-growing family groups. Figures published by the Office for National Statistics (ONS) show a steady rise in the number of adults choosing to live together without marrying or entering into a civil partnership.
Between 2012 and 2022, the proportion of people aged 16 and over living in a cohabiting relationship increased from 19.7% to 22.7%, representing growth from approximately 5.4 million to 6.8 million people over the ten-year period.
What Rights Do Cohabiting Couples Have?
Many people mistakenly believe that living together for a long period of time, or having children together, gives them the same legal rights as a married couple. This misconception is often referred to as a “common law marriage”. However, no such legal status exists in England and Wales.
Unlike married couples and civil partners, cohabiting partners do not automatically acquire legal rights simply because they live together. As a result, important legal and financial protections that apply to spouses are often unavailable to unmarried couples.
For example, if a relationship ends:
- One partner does not automatically have a right to share in the other’s property or savings.
- There may be no entitlement to pensions, investments, or other assets held solely in the other partner’s name.
- Neither partner is generally required to provide ongoing financial support to the other after separation.
The position can be even more difficult following the death of a partner. If they die without making a valid Will, the surviving cohabiting partner is not automatically entitled to inherit from their estate, regardless of how long the couple lived together or whether they shared a home.
This lack of legal protection can create significant financial uncertainty, particularly where one partner has reduced their working hours or stepped away from their career to care for children or manage family responsibilities. Taking legal advice and putting appropriate arrangements in place can help provide greater security for both partners.
Our thoughts on the proposed reforms
Jane Auty, Partner and Head of Family Law at Thornton Jones says: “The Government’s consultation represents one of the most significant reviews of cohabitation law in recent decades. With millions of couples choosing to live together without marrying, there is growing recognition that the law needs to reflect modern family life while ensuring fairness when relationships end or a partner passes away.”
Has the Cohabitation Rights Bill Been Passed?
At time of writing (June 2026) the Cohabitation Rights Bill has not yet become law, and the legal position for cohabiting couples in England and Wales remains unchanged.
Currently, unmarried couples do not have the same legal rights as married couples or civil partners. This means there is no automatic right to a partner’s property, finances, or inheritance if a relationship ends or a partner dies without a valid Will.
The Government is consulting on potential reforms that could give cohabiting couples greater legal and financial protection in the future. However, until any changes are introduced, cohabiting partners should consider taking steps to protect their interests, such as making a Will or entering into a cohabitation agreement.
Our thoughts on the proposed reforms
Stacey Higgs, Paralegal in the Family Law Team at Thornton Jones says: “Many people still believe that living together for a number of years creates legal rights similar to marriage, but this is simply not the case. We regularly advise clients who are shocked to learn how limited their rights can be. Regardless of whether these proposed reforms become law, planning ahead remains essential.”
What Should Cohabiting Couples Do Now?
Although the Government is considering reforms, the law has not yet changed. Cohabiting couples should not assume they will automatically gain new rights in the near future. If you live with your partner, it may be sensible to:
- Put a cohabitation agreement in place.
- Make or update your Will.
- Review property ownership arrangements.
- Consider how savings and other assets are held.
- Seek legal advice if you are separating.
Taking proactive steps now can help protect your interests regardless of whether future reforms are introduced.
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Contact our specialist Family Law solicitors today
Whether you are moving in with your partner, considering a cohabitation agreement, separating after a long-term relationship, or concerned about your legal rights, obtaining specialist legal advice can help you make informed decisions and avoid costly disputes in the future.
The law surrounding cohabitation can be complex, and many couples are surprised to learn that unmarried partners do not enjoy the same legal protections as married couples or civil partners. Taking advice at an early stage can help you protect your finances, property, and long-term interests.
At Thornton Jones, our experienced Family Law solicitors provide clear, practical guidance tailored to your individual circumstances. We can advise on cohabitation agreements, property disputes, financial arrangements, inheritance concerns, and relationship breakdowns.
To discuss your situation with a member of our team, call us today on 01924 290 029 or complete our online enquiry form, and we will be happy to help.
No. Despite the widespread belief that living together for a long period creates a “common law marriage”, no such legal status exists in England and Wales. Cohabiting couples do not automatically gain the same legal rights as married couples or civil partners, regardless of how long they have lived together or whether they have children.
The outcome will depend on who legally owns the property and whether both partners have a recognised financial interest in it. If only one partner owns the property, the other may still be able to establish rights in certain circumstances. Seeking legal advice early can help clarify your position and avoid disputes.
In most cases, no. Under the current law, unmarried partners are not automatically entitled to inherit from their partner’s estate if they die without a valid Will. This can leave surviving partners in a difficult financial position, particularly where they shared a home or had been together for many years.
A cohabitation agreement is a document that sets out how assets, property, finances, and other matters will be dealt with during the relationship and in the event of separation. It can provide clarity, reduce the risk of disputes, and help protect both partners’ interests.
While having children together does not give cohabiting couples the same rights as married couples, parents do have legal responsibilities towards their children. Issues such as child arrangements, parental responsibility, and child maintenance are governed by separate legal rules and can be addressed regardless of the parents’ marital status.
The content of this blog post is for information only and does not constitute formal legal advice and should not be relied upon as advice. Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no liability for any such reliance upon this content. Where the post includes links to external websites, Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no responsibility for the content of such sites. Any link to a third-party website should not be construed as endorsement by Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited of any content, products or services which are outside our direct control.
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The Hidden Risks of Using Internet Companies for Legal Advice
Why Quality Legal Advice Really Matters
We all turn to the internet for quick answers, but when it comes to legal decisions, especially in family law, those quick answers can carry real risks. Whether it’s fixing a boiler, booking a holiday, or last-minute searches for an outfit, Google is often the first port of call. It’s therefore no surprise that legal advice has followed the same path, with AI, websites, apps and online platforms promising quick, low‑cost answers to legal problems.
Online legal tools do have their place, they can be helpful starting points and useful for understanding basic concepts, but when it comes to making real decisions that affect finances, business or your personal life, relying solely on internet companies for legal advice can be risky. This is where good‑quality legal advice really earns its value.
The Law Is Rarely as Simple as It Looks Online
One of the biggest problems with online legal advice is that it tends to be generic. Most internet platforms rely on templates, multiple‑choice questions or automated responses. They work on the assumption that legal problems fit neatly into boxes. In family law, they rarely do.
Good legal advice starts with careful, informed listening. A qualified and experienced legal professional will ask questions you may not even realise are important and will spot issues that don’t show up in online forms. A small detail: a date, a conversation, a clause in a contract can completely change the legal position. Internet advice often misses those details, but a good lawyer won’t.
Information Is Not the Same as Advice
There’s an important distinction that often gets blurred online; information is not advice. For example, agreeing financial arrangements during a separation without proper advice may seem straightforward at the time, but can have long-term consequences if key assets or future needs are overlooked or not identified at all.
Online legal companies tend to explain what the law says in general terms. What they don’t usually do is help you decide what you should do. High‑quality legal advice involves judgement, experience and strategy. It’s about understanding risk, weighing options and helping someone choose the best course of action for their specific situation, not just pointing out what the legislation says.
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Accountability Matters (Especially When Things Go Wrong)
When you take advice from a regulated legal professional, there is real accountability behind it. Lawyers must meet professional standards and are regulated. This includes access to formal complaints procedures and professional indemnity insurance, protections that are often absent from unregulated online services.
Many online legal services sit outside this framework and rely heavily on disclaimers. If you follow online advice and it turns out to be wrong or insufficient, you may have little or no recourse. Good‑quality legal advice provides reassurance that the person advising you stands behind their work and has a professional responsibility to act in your best interests.
The Law Changes and Not All Websites Keep Up
The law doesn’t stand still. It changes constantly. Not all online platforms update their content regularly and not all users realise they may be reading guidance that is out of date.
Legal professionals are required to stay informed about changes in the law and how those changes are being applied in practice. Good‑quality legal advice reflects what is happening now.
Sean Hughes Death: The Dangers of a Homemade Will
The well loved Irish comedian Sean Hughes sadly passed away in 2017, leaving behind an estate of approximately £4 million. This included his main residence, estimated to be worth £1.8 million and two additional properties together estimated to be valued at £2.15 million.
Real Legal Problems Rarely End After One Question
Anyone who has dealt with a legal issue knows that one question usually leads to another. And then another.
Internet companies often struggle with this because their systems are designed for straightforward answers. They don’t adapt well when circumstances change or complications arise. Good legal advice, on the other hand, is a conversation. It evolves as the situation develops and provides ongoing support, not just a one‑off response.
About the Author
I have almost 25 years’ experience working within family law here at Thornton Jones Solicitors, having started as an office junior and working my way up to Paralegal. Throughout my career, I have built a wealth of experience, and I take pride in offering clients clear, supportive and professional assistance during challenging times.
Trust, Confidentiality and Peace of Mind
Family law legal issues always involve sensitive and personal information. Trust and confidentiality are at the heart of the client‑lawyer relationship, backed by strict professional obligations.
With online platforms, it isn’t always clear how data is stored, who can access it or how it may be used. When the stakes are high, knowing your information is handled properly is essential.
When Things Escalate, Online Services Can’t Step In
Internet legal companies can help generate documents or provide general guidance, but they can’t stand beside you in a dispute, negotiate on your behalf or represent you if matters end up in court.
Quite often, people only seek proper legal advice once something has already gone wrong. By then, positions may be weakened and costs may have increased. Good‑quality legal advice early on can prevent problems from escalating in the first place.
The False Confidence of Self-Service Legal Solutions
One of the most overlooked and significant risks of online legal advice is the confidence it can create. Clear explanations and slick websites can make legal issues seem far simpler than they truly are.
Good legal advice doesn’t just reassure, it challenges assumptions, highlights risks and flags potential consequences. It helps people make informed decisions, not just comfortable ones.
Why Good‑Quality Legal Advice Is Worth It
At first glance, internet legal services can seem like the cheaper option but mistakes in legal matters are rarely minor. They can lead to disputes, financial loss, stress and long‑term consequences that far outweigh the cost of professional advice, and in many cases, further costs are incurred to correct avoidable mistakes.
Good‑quality legal advice offers:
- Clear, tailored guidance specific to your situation
- Realistic assessments of risk and potential outcomes
- Professional accountability and regulatory protection
- Practical, solution-focused advice
- Confidence that decisions are made with full understanding
In short, it’s about more than ticking boxes or completing forms. Legal advice is best viewed not as a cost, but as an investment in your future.
Contact our specialist solicitors today
Online legal tools can be useful, but they are no replacement for thoughtful, experienced legal advice. When a decision really matters, taking proper advice isn’t an unnecessary cost, it’s a sensible investment.
When it comes to family law, getting it right the first time can make a lasting difference to your finances, your family, and your future.
At Thornton Jones, we believe that every client deserves expert guidance tailored to their unique circumstances. Contact our team today on 01924 290 029 or contact us using our online enquiry form.
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When Reality TV Highlights Real-Life Issues
What the MAFS Allegations Tell Us About Relationships, Safety and Support
Recent allegations surrounding Married at First Sight UK (MAFS) have brought serious and difficult issues into the public eye. Reports following a BBC investigation include claims by multiple women of sexual assault and non-consensual acts during their time on the show, with Channel 4 launching an external review into participant welfare.
Although this story comes from a reality TV programme, the issues behind it are sadly very real. They reflect the kinds of situations family law professionals see every day, including relationship breakdown, power imbalance, coercion and safeguarding concerns.
Behind the Headlines: Real Issues Affecting Real People
Although the details of the allegations remain contested, the situation highlights wider concerns about what can happen when relationships become unsafe, unequal, or emotionally harmful.
Family law is not just about divorce paperwork or court proceedings. Very often, it involves helping people who are dealing with controlling or coercive behaviour, emotional or psychological harm, breakdowns in trust and communication and an imbalance of power within a relationship.
If you are in that position, you may not immediately realise that what you are experiencing could have legal implications, or that support is available.
The Importance of Early Advice
One of the key themes emerging from the recent reporting is that concerns may have been raised during participants’ time on the programme. It is a reminder of something we often say to clients: getting advice early can make a real difference. Early legal advice can help you to:
- Understand your legal rights
- Identify risks or safeguarding concerns
- Explore appropriate next steps
- Put protective measures in place where needed
Even where matters do not involve criminal proceedings, they can still have a significant impact in family law, particularly where children are involved.
Understanding Your Options: Mediation and Other Forms of Non-Court Dispute Resolution
Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) offers alternatives to court that can be more constructive, less adversarial and often more cost-effective.
Mediation is not right for every case. Where there are concerns about domestic abuse, coercive control or a significant imbalance of power, it may not be appropriate because both people need to be able to take part freely and safely.
Other forms of NCDR may still be suitable, depending on your circumstances:-
Solicitor-Led Negotiation
Each party is supported by their own solicitor, who communicates and negotiates on their behalf. The advantages are:-
- Removes the need for direct contact
- Provides a protective layer in more sensitive cases
- Allows for constructive but robust discussions
- Often helps avoid court proceedings
This is frequently a suitable option where there is conflict or imbalance, but a resolution is still possible.
Collaborative Law
A structured process where both parties and their solicitors work together to resolve issues without going to court. The advantages are:-
- Open, transparent discussions
- Focus on problem-solving
- Can involve other professionals such as financial advisors or therapists
This approach requires both parties to feel able to participate safely and voluntarily.
Collaborative Law: A more amicable approach to divorce
Collaborative Law offers couples a constructive way to navigate divorce, putting them in control of decisions and reducing conflict. Instead of facing lengthy court battles, parties work together with legal and financial professionals to resolve issues calmly, protecting relationships and supporting a smoother transition for both families and finances.
Taking a Tailored and Holistic Approach
At Thornton Jones, we know that family law issues are often tied up with emotional and practical challenges too. That is why we take a holistic approach, looking at the wider picture as well as the legal process.
- Signposting to counselling or therapeutic services
- Referrals to specialist support organisations where appropriate
- Child-focused solutions, prioritising wellbeing at all times
- Practical, solution-led legal advice tailored to your situation
Our aim is to support not just the legal process but your overall wellbeing and future stability.
Private Family Law: Tailored Support When It Matters Most
With Legal Aid no longer as widely available, navigating private legal services can feel daunting. Our private family law services offer:
- Personalised advice tailored to your circumstances
- Continuity of support from start to finish
- A proactive and responsive approach
- Clear communication and transparency on costs
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Breaking the Silence Around Relationship Issues
Situations like those highlighted in the MAFS allegations show how hard it can be to speak about relationship issues. Many people worry they will not be believed, feel unsure whether their situation is serious enough, or simply do not know where to turn.
Family law professionals can provide a safe and confidential space to begin those conversations without pressure or judgement.
Meet Our Collaborative Law Specialist
Jane Auty is a trained Collaborative Lawyer who promotes constructive, non-court divorce solutions. She supports clients in resolving financial and family disputes through cooperative, face-to-face meetings with both parties and professionals, aiming to reduce conflict, encourage agreement, and maintain respectful communication during separation.
How We Can Help
If you are experiencing difficulties in your relationship, thinking about separation or divorce, worried about your safety or wellbeing, or unsure about your rights in relation to children or finances, we are here to support you in a way that feels right for you.
- Empathetic
- Discreet
- Practical
- Focused on achieving the best possible outcome for you and your family
Final Thoughts
Although the MAFS allegations relate to a television programme, they are a reminder of how important safety, respect and support are in every relationship. If something does not feel right, you do not have to ignore it or work through it alone. Seeking advice can be a positive first step.
Contact our specialist Family Dispute Resolution Solicitors today
At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our experienced family law team can guide you through every stage of Family Dispute Resolution, including Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) methods such as mediation, by:
- Explaining the different forms of NCDR available, including mediation, solicitor negotiations, collaborative law, and arbitration, and advising on the most suitable approach for your circumstances
- Helping you resolve disputes relating to children, finances, property, and future arrangements in a constructive and cost-effective way without the need for lengthy court proceedings where possible
- Providing clear legal advice and practical guidance throughout the dispute resolution process
- Supporting constructive communication to help reduce conflict and encourage workable solutions for the future
- Assisting in reaching fair and practical agreements concerning child arrangements, financial settlements, and co-parenting arrangements
- Preparing and reviewing documentation where agreements have been reached, including consent orders and parenting plans where appropriate
- Working alongside mediators and other professionals to help progress matters efficiently and amicably
- Offering a supportive and professional environment focused on achieving positive outcomes for you and your family
Non-Court Dispute Resolution can provide a more flexible, private, and less adversarial alternative to court proceedings, helping families resolve disputes with greater cooperation and less emotional and financial strain. Obtaining early legal advice can help protect your interests and ensure that any agreements reached are fair, practical, and sustainable for the future.
Get in touch with our friendly and knowledgeable team today to discuss your options. You can call us on 01924 290 029 or contact us using our online enquiry form.
Dispute Resolution FAQs
Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) includes methods such as mediation, solicitor-led negotiation, Collaborative Law and arbitration, all designed to help families resolve disputes without going to court. At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our specialist Family Dispute Resolution solicitors can advise on the most suitable NCDR option for your circumstances. Contact our team today to discuss your options.
Family mediation can be an effective form of NCDR, but it may not be appropriate where there are concerns about domestic abuse, coercive control or a significant imbalance of power. At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our experienced family law solicitors can assess your situation and advise whether mediation, Collaborative Law or another form of Non-Court Dispute Resolution may be suitable. Get in touch today for confidential advice and support.
At Thornton Jones Solicitors, we provide specialist support with mediation, Collaborative Law and other forms of Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) to help clients resolve disputes involving children, finances and separation constructively and cost-effectively. Our expert family law team offers tailored advice focused on achieving practical and positive outcomes. Contact us today to find out how we can help.
Mediation and other forms of Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR), including Collaborative Law and solicitor-led negotiation, can help families resolve disputes more quickly, privately and cost-effectively than court proceedings. At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our specialist Family Dispute Resolution solicitors can help you explore the most appropriate solution for your circumstances. Contact our team today for expert advice.
Collaborative Law is a form of NCDR that allows separating couples to work together with their solicitors to reach agreements outside of court. It focuses on constructive communication and practical solutions relating to finances, property and child arrangements. At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our experienced family law solicitors offer specialist Collaborative Law services tailored to your needs. Get in touch today to discuss your options.
Seeking early legal advice can help you better understand your rights and options, particularly where issues involve child arrangements, finances, separation or if you have any safeguarding concerns. At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our expert Family Dispute Resolution solicitors provide clear and supportive guidance on mediation, NCDR and other family law matters. Contact us today to speak with our friendly team.
The content of this blog post is for information only and does not constitute formal legal advice and should not be relied upon as advice. Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no liability for any such reliance upon this content. Where the post includes links to external websites, Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no responsibility for the content of such sites. Any link to a third-party website should not be construed as endorsement by Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited of any content, products or services which are outside our direct control.
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What Is Child‑Inclusive Mediation?
Giving Young People a Voice in Family Disputes
When families navigate separation or conflict, much of the focus naturally falls on the adults making decisions. Yet the people who often feel the impact most deeply, the children, can unintentionally be left on the side-lines.
Child‑Inclusive Mediation (CIM) is reshaping this experience by offering a safe, supportive, and age‑appropriate way for children to share their thoughts and feelings with a specially trained mediator.
What Is Child‑Inclusive Mediation?
Child‑Inclusive Mediation is a process in which children typically aged 10 and above (though younger children may be included if appropriate), meet privately with a trained Child‑Inclusive Mediator. What the child chooses to share, if anything, is entirely up to them.
The goal isn’t to place responsibility on children, as the parents still make the decisions. It provides space for the child to feel heard and share their views, without pressure and without being asked to “take sides.”
Why Children’s Voices Matter
- Empowerment – Children feel valued and reassured when their views are genuinely listened to.
- Better Decision‑Making – Parents gain deeper insight into their child’s needs, supporting more thoughtful and workable agreements.
- Reduced Conflict – Hearing a child’s perspective often helps parents shift from disagreement to shared priorities.
- Emotional Wellbeing – Children feel recognised, understood, and supported during what can be a confusing time.
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How Mediators Keep the Process Safe and Supportive
- Specialist Training – CIM mediators undergo additional professional training to engage with children sensitively and ethically.
- Voluntary Participation – Children, if both parents agree, are invited, but never pressured, to take part.
- Child‑Friendly Communication – Mediators adapt their approach, using language, activities, and environments that feel comfortable and natural to the child.
- Clear Boundaries – The child remains in control of what the mediator may share, helping build trust and emotional safety.
How the Process Works
- Parental Agreement – Both parents must consent before CIM can take place.
- Child’s Invitation – The mediator explains the process in an age‑appropriate, reassuring way.
- Private Conversation – The child meets with the mediator alone, giving them a space free from influence or pressure.
- Feedback (Only If Agreed) – The mediator shares the child’s views with the parents, exactly as the child has approved—no more, no less.
What is Integrated Family Mediation?
Although taking part in mediation is a preferred approach to resolving your differences when separating, like anything new to you, the prospect of entering into mediation can be to some a daunting one. Not knowing what to expect from the process and a fear of feeling alone can however be mitigated by choosing a process called integrated family mediation.
A Step Towards Healthier Family Outcomes
Child‑Inclusive Mediation doesn’t give children responsibility for adult decisions. Instead, it ensures they feel seen, heard, and respected.
By including children’s voices in a sensitive and structured way, families can create arrangements that reflect everyone’s needs and promote long‑term emotional wellbeing.
If your family is navigating change, CIM can help bridge understanding and reduce conflict. It’s not about handing children the burden of choice—it’s about offering them the dignity of a voice.
Our Child-Inclusive Mediator
At Thornton Jones, we are proud to have Shelley Wales our fully trained Child‑Inclusive Mediation solicitor on our team. Shelley is committed to ensuring children’s voices are heard with care, sensitivity, and expertise. If you’d like to explore whether CIM could benefit your family, please contact Shelley.
Contact our specialist Family Mediation Service today
At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our experienced family law team can guide you through every step of the family mediation process by:
- Explaining how family mediation works and whether it is the right option for your circumstances
- Helping you resolve issues relating to children, finances, property, and future arrangements in a constructive and cost-effective way
- Providing clear information and options throughout the mediation process
- Supporting you in reaching practical agreements that work for you and your family
- Preparing documentation where agreements have been reached
- Assisting with arrangements, including parenting plans and financial settlements
- Offering a calm, impartial, and supportive environment to help reduce conflict and encourage open communication
Family mediation can provide a more amicable and less stressful alternative to court proceedings, helping families move forward with clarity and confidence. Obtaining the right legal support ensures your interests are protected and that any agreements reached are fair and workable for the future.
Get in touch with our friendly and knowledgeable team today to discuss your options. You can call us on 01924 290 029 or contact us using our online enquiry form.
Child-Inclusive Mediation FAQs
Child-Inclusive Mediation is typically suitable for children aged 10 and above, although younger children may be included depending on their maturity and circumstances. The mediator will always consider what is appropriate and in the child’s best interests. Our specialist Mediator, Shelley Wales, advises that every child is different, and suitability should always be assessed on an individual basis to ensure the process feels safe and supportive.
No. Participation is entirely voluntary. Children are invited to take part only if both parents agree, and the child themselves feels comfortable speaking with the mediator.
Thornton Jones Solicitors recognise that children should never feel pressured to participate, as the process works best when they feel relaxed and able to speak openly.
No. Child-Inclusive Mediation is never about asking children to take sides or make decisions. The purpose is simply to give children a safe opportunity to express their wishes and feelings. Child-Inclusive Mediation is designed to reduce emotional pressure on children, not increase it, by ensuring they are listened to in a neutral and supportive environment.
Yes. The child decides what information, if any, can be shared with their parents. The mediator will only provide the feedback that the child has agreed can be fed back.
Thornton Jones’ specialist mediator understands that confidentiality is an important part of helping children feel comfortable, respected, and heard throughout the process.
In many cases, yes. By helping parents better understand their child’s needs and perspectives, Child-Inclusive Mediation can support more constructive communication and assist families in reaching agreements outside of court. Thornton Jones Solicitors advise that mediation can often provide a more positive and less confrontational route forward for families than lengthy court proceedings.
The content of this blog post is for information only and does not constitute formal legal advice and should not be relied upon as advice. Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no liability for any such reliance upon this content. Where the post includes links to external websites, Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no responsibility for the content of such sites. Any link to a third-party website should not be construed as endorsement by Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited of any content, products or services which are outside our direct control.
