Social Media Ban for Under 16s: What It Means for Family Law Disputes
The UK government’s proposed ban on social media use for children under 16 is set to come into force in 2027, and could fundamentally change how young people access platforms such as TikTok, Instagram and Snapchat.
Whilst the focus of the policy is on protecting children’s safety and wellbeing, it is also likely to have significant implications for family law; particularly for separated parents navigating children’s upbringing.
In this blog, we explore how the proposed ban could affect family court proceedings and what parents should be considering now.
A New Source of Conflict for Separated Parents
Disagreements about children’s use of technology are already common. Parents often clash over screen time, smartphone ownership, and access to online content. However, the introduction of a legal framework restricting social media use marks a shift in how these disputes may be treated.
Rather than being seen as minor differences in parenting style, decisions about social media access could increasingly be viewed through the lens of child welfare; the key principle guiding all decisions in the family courts.
For separated parents, this means disputes about apps, accounts and online activity may carry greater legal weight than ever before.
How Family Courts May Approach Social Media Disputes
Family courts in England and Wales are guided by the principle that a child’s welfare is paramount. Within that context, judges may begin to scrutinise how each parent manages a child’s digital life.
As highlighted in the Law Gazette, concerns about online safety are likely to influence how courts assess parenting decisions. This could include:-
- Whether a parent allows access to age‑restricted platforms
- How each parent monitors and supervises online activity
- Exposure to inappropriate or harmful content
- The consistency of rules across both households
Importantly, social media use alone is unlikely to determine where a child lives or how much time they spend with each parent. However, it may form part of a broader picture when assessing a parent’s ability to safeguard and promote a child’s wellbeing.
Our thoughts on the proposed changes
Stacey Higgs, Paralegal in the Family Law Team at Thornton Jones says: “While the introduction of measures which are designed to protect children when online may be welcomed by many families, separated parents could face new challenges where personal views differ on social media use. Disagreements over access, communication and digital independence may create further areas of conflict, requiring careful and child-focused co-parenting discussions.”
Increased Pressure for Consistency Between Households
One of the key challenges for separated families is maintaining consistency in parenting approaches. With the introduction of a social media ban, there may be greater expectation that parents:-
- Agree clear and consistent rules about online access
- Communicate effectively about digital boundaries
- Avoid exposing children to conflicting standards between homes
Practical Challenges and Enforcement Issues
Whilst the proposed ban is well‑intentioned, questions remain about how it will be enforced in practice. Technology experts have already highlighted concerns that restrictions may be difficult to police effectively. For family courts, this creates a complex situation:-
- Compliance may be difficult to monitor
- Children may access platforms through alternative means
- Disputes may arise even where breaches are unintentional
As a result, courts are unlikely to adopt a rigid or punitive approach. Instead, the focus will remain on whether each parent is acting reasonably and in the child’s best interests.
What Should Parents Do Now?
Although the ban is not due to take effect until 2027, separated parents can take proactive steps to minimise future conflict:-
- Start the conversation early – discuss social media use and expectations before it becomes a point of disagreement.
- Agree clear boundaries – set out age‑appropriate rules about devices, apps and online behaviour.
- Prioritise consistency – where possible, ensure similar rules apply in both households.
- Focus on the child’s wellbeing – avoid turning disagreements into wider disputes, the child’s best interests should always come first.
- Seek legal advice if needed – if disagreements escalate, early legal guidance can help resolve issues before court proceedings become necessary.
Collaborative Family Law
Many people worry that getting divorced or separating will inevitably be long, expensive and full of conflict. However, with the right approach and expert legal guidance, it is often possible to keep the process amicable, as well as making it faster and less expensive – this is exactly what collaborative law is all about.
Looking Ahead: The Growing Role of Digital Parenting in Family Law
The proposed social media ban reflects a broader shift: parenting is increasingly taking place in a digital world, and the law is evolving alongside it.
For family lawyers, this represents a new and developing area of advice. For parents, it highlights the importance of cooperation, communication and forward planning.
As these changes take effect, one thing remains clear: the family courts will continue to prioritise the welfare of the child above all else, whether the issue is where they live, how often they see each parent, or how they engage with the online world.
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Need Advice on a Child Arrangements or a Parenting Dispute?
If you are experiencing difficulties reaching agreement with a former partner about your child’s upbringing, including issues relating to technology and social media, our family law team is here to help.
At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our experienced family law team can guide you through the range of Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) options available, helping you find the most appropriate approach for your circumstances. We can assist by:
- Explaining the different NCDR options available, including mediation, solicitor-led negotiation, collaborative law, arbitration, and private dispute resolution processes
- Helping you identify the most suitable method for resolving disputes relating to children, finances, property, and future arrangements
- Providing clear legal advice and practical guidance throughout the process
- Supporting constructive discussions aimed at reaching agreements without the need for court proceedings
- Preparing and reviewing documentation where agreements have been reached
- Assisting with arrangements, including parenting plans and financial settlements
- Helping you understand the benefits, limitations, and likely outcomes of each NCDR option
- Offering a calm, supportive, and solution-focused approach to help reduce conflict and encourage effective communication
Non-Court Dispute Resolution can provide a more flexible, cost-effective, and less stressful alternative to court proceedings, enabling families to resolve issues in a constructive and collaborative way. Obtaining the right legal support can help protect your interests, promote positive outcomes for your family, and ensure that any agreements reached are fair, practical, and workable for the future.
Get in touch with our friendly and knowledgeable team today to discuss your options. You can call us on 01924 290 029 or contact us using our online enquiry form.
Non-Court Dispute Resolution FAQs
Court is not your only option when disagreements arise. NCDR (Non-Court Dispute Resolution) offers practical and constructive ways to resolve disputes without the stress, delay and cost of litigation and court proceedings.
My Suggestion: Court is not your only option when disagreements arise. NCDR (Non-Court Dispute Resolution) offers practical and constructive ways to resolve disputes without the stress, delay and cost of litigation and court proceedings. NCDR (Non-Court Dispute Resolution) refers to ways of resolving family disputes without court proceedings, such as mediation, arbitration, collaborative law, and solicitor negotiations. Courts encourage parties to consider NCDR before issuing applications, as it can be quicker, less costly, and less confrontational than litigation.
In many family cases, the court expects people to consider NCDR before applying to court. The court can ask what steps have been taken to resolve matters without litigation.
Mediation – an impartial mediator helps you discuss issues and work towards a practical agreement.
Collaborative Law – each person has a trained solicitor, and everyone commits to resolving matters without going to court.
One Lawyer – both parties jointly instruct one neutral solicitor to help them reach a fair agreement.
Arbitration – an independent arbitrator makes a private, binding decision.
Early Neutral Evaluation – a neutral expert gives an early view on the strengths and weaknesses of each case.
The content of this blog post is for information only and does not constitute formal legal advice and should not be relied upon as advice. Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no liability for any such reliance upon this content. Where the post includes links to external websites, Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no responsibility for the content of such sites. Any link to a third-party website should not be construed as endorsement by Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited of any content, products or services which are outside our direct control.
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When Reality TV Highlights Real-Life Issues
What the MAFS Allegations Tell Us About Relationships, Safety and Support
Recent allegations surrounding Married at First Sight UK (MAFS) have brought serious and difficult issues into the public eye. Reports following a BBC investigation include claims by multiple women of sexual assault and non-consensual acts during their time on the show, with Channel 4 launching an external review into participant welfare.
Although this story comes from a reality TV programme, the issues behind it are sadly very real. They reflect the kinds of situations family law professionals see every day, including relationship breakdown, power imbalance, coercion and safeguarding concerns.
Behind the Headlines: Real Issues Affecting Real People
Although the details of the allegations remain contested, the situation highlights wider concerns about what can happen when relationships become unsafe, unequal, or emotionally harmful.
Family law is not just about divorce paperwork or court proceedings. Very often, it involves helping people who are dealing with controlling or coercive behaviour, emotional or psychological harm, breakdowns in trust and communication and an imbalance of power within a relationship.
If you are in that position, you may not immediately realise that what you are experiencing could have legal implications, or that support is available.
The Importance of Early Advice
One of the key themes emerging from the recent reporting is that concerns may have been raised during participants’ time on the programme. It is a reminder of something we often say to clients: getting advice early can make a real difference. Early legal advice can help you to:
- Understand your legal rights
- Identify risks or safeguarding concerns
- Explore appropriate next steps
- Put protective measures in place where needed
Even where matters do not involve criminal proceedings, they can still have a significant impact in family law, particularly where children are involved.
Understanding Your Options: Mediation and Other Forms of Non-Court Dispute Resolution
Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) offers alternatives to court that can be more constructive, less adversarial and often more cost-effective.
Mediation is not right for every case. Where there are concerns about domestic abuse, coercive control or a significant imbalance of power, it may not be appropriate because both people need to be able to take part freely and safely.
Other forms of NCDR may still be suitable, depending on your circumstances:-
Solicitor-Led Negotiation
Each party is supported by their own solicitor, who communicates and negotiates on their behalf. The advantages are:-
- Removes the need for direct contact
- Provides a protective layer in more sensitive cases
- Allows for constructive but robust discussions
- Often helps avoid court proceedings
This is frequently a suitable option where there is conflict or imbalance, but a resolution is still possible.
Collaborative Law
A structured process where both parties and their solicitors work together to resolve issues without going to court. The advantages are:-
- Open, transparent discussions
- Focus on problem-solving
- Can involve other professionals such as financial advisors or therapists
This approach requires both parties to feel able to participate safely and voluntarily.
Collaborative Law: A more amicable approach to divorce
Collaborative Law offers couples a constructive way to navigate divorce, putting them in control of decisions and reducing conflict. Instead of facing lengthy court battles, parties work together with legal and financial professionals to resolve issues calmly, protecting relationships and supporting a smoother transition for both families and finances.
Taking a Tailored and Holistic Approach
At Thornton Jones, we know that family law issues are often tied up with emotional and practical challenges too. That is why we take a holistic approach, looking at the wider picture as well as the legal process.
- Signposting to counselling or therapeutic services
- Referrals to specialist support organisations where appropriate
- Child-focused solutions, prioritising wellbeing at all times
- Practical, solution-led legal advice tailored to your situation
Our aim is to support not just the legal process but your overall wellbeing and future stability.
Private Family Law: Tailored Support When It Matters Most
With Legal Aid no longer as widely available, navigating private legal services can feel daunting. Our private family law services offer:
- Personalised advice tailored to your circumstances
- Continuity of support from start to finish
- A proactive and responsive approach
- Clear communication and transparency on costs
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Breaking the Silence Around Relationship Issues
Situations like those highlighted in the MAFS allegations show how hard it can be to speak about relationship issues. Many people worry they will not be believed, feel unsure whether their situation is serious enough, or simply do not know where to turn.
Family law professionals can provide a safe and confidential space to begin those conversations without pressure or judgement.
Meet Our Collaborative Law Specialist
Jane Auty is a trained Collaborative Lawyer who promotes constructive, non-court divorce solutions. She supports clients in resolving financial and family disputes through cooperative, face-to-face meetings with both parties and professionals, aiming to reduce conflict, encourage agreement, and maintain respectful communication during separation.
How We Can Help
If you are experiencing difficulties in your relationship, thinking about separation or divorce, worried about your safety or wellbeing, or unsure about your rights in relation to children or finances, we are here to support you in a way that feels right for you.
- Empathetic
- Discreet
- Practical
- Focused on achieving the best possible outcome for you and your family
Final Thoughts
Although the MAFS allegations relate to a television programme, they are a reminder of how important safety, respect and support are in every relationship. If something does not feel right, you do not have to ignore it or work through it alone. Seeking advice can be a positive first step.
Contact our specialist Family Dispute Resolution Solicitors today
At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our experienced family law team can guide you through every stage of Family Dispute Resolution, including Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) methods such as mediation, by:
- Explaining the different forms of NCDR available, including mediation, solicitor negotiations, collaborative law, and arbitration, and advising on the most suitable approach for your circumstances
- Helping you resolve disputes relating to children, finances, property, and future arrangements in a constructive and cost-effective way without the need for lengthy court proceedings where possible
- Providing clear legal advice and practical guidance throughout the dispute resolution process
- Supporting constructive communication to help reduce conflict and encourage workable solutions for the future
- Assisting in reaching fair and practical agreements concerning child arrangements, financial settlements, and co-parenting arrangements
- Preparing and reviewing documentation where agreements have been reached, including consent orders and parenting plans where appropriate
- Working alongside mediators and other professionals to help progress matters efficiently and amicably
- Offering a supportive and professional environment focused on achieving positive outcomes for you and your family
Non-Court Dispute Resolution can provide a more flexible, private, and less adversarial alternative to court proceedings, helping families resolve disputes with greater cooperation and less emotional and financial strain. Obtaining early legal advice can help protect your interests and ensure that any agreements reached are fair, practical, and sustainable for the future.
Get in touch with our friendly and knowledgeable team today to discuss your options. You can call us on 01924 290 029 or contact us using our online enquiry form.
Dispute Resolution FAQs
Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) includes methods such as mediation, solicitor-led negotiation, Collaborative Law and arbitration, all designed to help families resolve disputes without going to court. At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our specialist Family Dispute Resolution solicitors can advise on the most suitable NCDR option for your circumstances. Contact our team today to discuss your options.
Family mediation can be an effective form of NCDR, but it may not be appropriate where there are concerns about domestic abuse, coercive control or a significant imbalance of power. At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our experienced family law solicitors can assess your situation and advise whether mediation, Collaborative Law or another form of Non-Court Dispute Resolution may be suitable. Get in touch today for confidential advice and support.
At Thornton Jones Solicitors, we provide specialist support with mediation, Collaborative Law and other forms of Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) to help clients resolve disputes involving children, finances and separation constructively and cost-effectively. Our expert family law team offers tailored advice focused on achieving practical and positive outcomes. Contact us today to find out how we can help.
Mediation and other forms of Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR), including Collaborative Law and solicitor-led negotiation, can help families resolve disputes more quickly, privately and cost-effectively than court proceedings. At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our specialist Family Dispute Resolution solicitors can help you explore the most appropriate solution for your circumstances. Contact our team today for expert advice.
Collaborative Law is a form of NCDR that allows separating couples to work together with their solicitors to reach agreements outside of court. It focuses on constructive communication and practical solutions relating to finances, property and child arrangements. At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our experienced family law solicitors offer specialist Collaborative Law services tailored to your needs. Get in touch today to discuss your options.
Seeking early legal advice can help you better understand your rights and options, particularly where issues involve child arrangements, finances, separation or if you have any safeguarding concerns. At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our expert Family Dispute Resolution solicitors provide clear and supportive guidance on mediation, NCDR and other family law matters. Contact us today to speak with our friendly team.
The content of this blog post is for information only and does not constitute formal legal advice and should not be relied upon as advice. Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no liability for any such reliance upon this content. Where the post includes links to external websites, Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no responsibility for the content of such sites. Any link to a third-party website should not be construed as endorsement by Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited of any content, products or services which are outside our direct control.
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What Is Child‑Inclusive Mediation?
Giving Young People a Voice in Family Disputes
When families navigate separation or conflict, much of the focus naturally falls on the adults making decisions. Yet the people who often feel the impact most deeply, the children, can unintentionally be left on the side-lines.
Child‑Inclusive Mediation (CIM) is reshaping this experience by offering a safe, supportive, and age‑appropriate way for children to share their thoughts and feelings with a specially trained mediator.
What Is Child‑Inclusive Mediation?
Child‑Inclusive Mediation is a process in which children typically aged 10 and above (though younger children may be included if appropriate), meet privately with a trained Child‑Inclusive Mediator. What the child chooses to share, if anything, is entirely up to them.
The goal isn’t to place responsibility on children, as the parents still make the decisions. It provides space for the child to feel heard and share their views, without pressure and without being asked to “take sides.”
Why Children’s Voices Matter
- Empowerment – Children feel valued and reassured when their views are genuinely listened to.
- Better Decision‑Making – Parents gain deeper insight into their child’s needs, supporting more thoughtful and workable agreements.
- Reduced Conflict – Hearing a child’s perspective often helps parents shift from disagreement to shared priorities.
- Emotional Wellbeing – Children feel recognised, understood, and supported during what can be a confusing time.
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How Mediators Keep the Process Safe and Supportive
- Specialist Training – CIM mediators undergo additional professional training to engage with children sensitively and ethically.
- Voluntary Participation – Children, if both parents agree, are invited, but never pressured, to take part.
- Child‑Friendly Communication – Mediators adapt their approach, using language, activities, and environments that feel comfortable and natural to the child.
- Clear Boundaries – The child remains in control of what the mediator may share, helping build trust and emotional safety.
How the Process Works
- Parental Agreement – Both parents must consent before CIM can take place.
- Child’s Invitation – The mediator explains the process in an age‑appropriate, reassuring way.
- Private Conversation – The child meets with the mediator alone, giving them a space free from influence or pressure.
- Feedback (Only If Agreed) – The mediator shares the child’s views with the parents, exactly as the child has approved—no more, no less.
What is Integrated Family Mediation?
Although taking part in mediation is a preferred approach to resolving your differences when separating, like anything new to you, the prospect of entering into mediation can be to some a daunting one. Not knowing what to expect from the process and a fear of feeling alone can however be mitigated by choosing a process called integrated family mediation.
A Step Towards Healthier Family Outcomes
Child‑Inclusive Mediation doesn’t give children responsibility for adult decisions. Instead, it ensures they feel seen, heard, and respected.
By including children’s voices in a sensitive and structured way, families can create arrangements that reflect everyone’s needs and promote long‑term emotional wellbeing.
If your family is navigating change, CIM can help bridge understanding and reduce conflict. It’s not about handing children the burden of choice—it’s about offering them the dignity of a voice.
Our Child-Inclusive Mediator
At Thornton Jones, we are proud to have Shelley Wales our fully trained Child‑Inclusive Mediation solicitor on our team. Shelley is committed to ensuring children’s voices are heard with care, sensitivity, and expertise. If you’d like to explore whether CIM could benefit your family, please contact Shelley.
Contact our specialist Family Mediation Service today
At Thornton Jones Solicitors, our experienced family law team can guide you through every step of the family mediation process by:
- Explaining how family mediation works and whether it is the right option for your circumstances
- Helping you resolve issues relating to children, finances, property, and future arrangements in a constructive and cost-effective way
- Providing clear information and options throughout the mediation process
- Supporting you in reaching practical agreements that work for you and your family
- Preparing documentation where agreements have been reached
- Assisting with arrangements, including parenting plans and financial settlements
- Offering a calm, impartial, and supportive environment to help reduce conflict and encourage open communication
Family mediation can provide a more amicable and less stressful alternative to court proceedings, helping families move forward with clarity and confidence. Obtaining the right legal support ensures your interests are protected and that any agreements reached are fair and workable for the future.
Get in touch with our friendly and knowledgeable team today to discuss your options. You can call us on 01924 290 029 or contact us using our online enquiry form.
Child-Inclusive Mediation FAQs
Child-Inclusive Mediation is typically suitable for children aged 10 and above, although younger children may be included depending on their maturity and circumstances. The mediator will always consider what is appropriate and in the child’s best interests. Our specialist Mediator, Shelley Wales, advises that every child is different, and suitability should always be assessed on an individual basis to ensure the process feels safe and supportive.
No. Participation is entirely voluntary. Children are invited to take part only if both parents agree, and the child themselves feels comfortable speaking with the mediator.
Thornton Jones Solicitors recognise that children should never feel pressured to participate, as the process works best when they feel relaxed and able to speak openly.
No. Child-Inclusive Mediation is never about asking children to take sides or make decisions. The purpose is simply to give children a safe opportunity to express their wishes and feelings. Child-Inclusive Mediation is designed to reduce emotional pressure on children, not increase it, by ensuring they are listened to in a neutral and supportive environment.
Yes. The child decides what information, if any, can be shared with their parents. The mediator will only provide the feedback that the child has agreed can be fed back.
Thornton Jones’ specialist mediator understands that confidentiality is an important part of helping children feel comfortable, respected, and heard throughout the process.
In many cases, yes. By helping parents better understand their child’s needs and perspectives, Child-Inclusive Mediation can support more constructive communication and assist families in reaching agreements outside of court. Thornton Jones Solicitors advise that mediation can often provide a more positive and less confrontational route forward for families than lengthy court proceedings.
The content of this blog post is for information only and does not constitute formal legal advice and should not be relied upon as advice. Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no liability for any such reliance upon this content. Where the post includes links to external websites, Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited accepts no responsibility for the content of such sites. Any link to a third-party website should not be construed as endorsement by Thornton Jones Solicitors Limited of any content, products or services which are outside our direct control.
